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Bad mood – child psychology

Hello!

My eldest daughter is 8.5. What worries me is that it always! wakes up in a bad mood. This is a very bad effect on the overall climate in the family. Moreover, is not dependent – it’s a weekend or school, in the morning she always gets up acidly. Talked to her, asked what was bothering her. In response – I tired it last night. By withdrawing asleep for a long time, especially not to Wake me, letting her sleep .. Tried to explain that getting up in the morning in a bad mood and it programs on the same day that you need much energy. Once even jokingly brought her back to bed and told him to stand with his right foot, novelty and gag did its job – the whole morning laughing.

Daughter goes to a publish school, comes home to 6. Loves classmates, the school itself and the education – doesn’t like Can be the reason?

Fantomas 16 May 2012

Shurochka 16 May 2012

Though I am not a little girl, but I’ve noticed that often depends on the mood of the dream.

Sometimes I Wake up Sunny, dakatia reality.

Sometimes you will dream of something vague, but something unpleasant and get in the same mood.

You didn’t ask, her dreams? What??

Then you can PM to warn her that in the morning it will be a surprise of some sort, let them sleep in anticipation.

Well, you really rasstaraytes. something come up..

In General, the expectation of something pleasant, anticipation (for example akvopark on the weekend, or roller rink)

sweeter than the entertainment. All week you can enjoy..)

You are planning a weekend. Or how it goes??

You can Wake some fun background music that unconsciously made us happy..

Does your child know that you love him? do you tell about it?

Summary 16 May 2012

Fantomas

understand that everything happens. In the case of the daughter’s alarming is the fact that she always wakes up in a bad mood!!! This can not but cause concern, agree.

Shurochka

and ask about dreams, of course. Says nothing yet.

Then you can PM to warn her that in the morning it will be a surprise of some sort, let them sleep in anticipation.

Well, you really rasstaraytes. something come up..

In General, the expectation of something pleasant, anticipation (for example akvopark on the weekend, or roller rink)

sweeter than the entertainment. All week you can enjoy..)

I’m so tired of her bad mood, and not only in the morning that my imagination has no limit)

Every week I tunable children “holidays”, and fully – themed party, with prizes. They love the holidays. This time I managed to Wake my daughter at least some motivation to learn. Now she does her homework without hysterics. Before each request to sit for lessons was accompanied by crocodile tears.

Plus, every night I bring them again the prizes, Yes, indulge, know.

And yet – once a week, mainly in one weekend – I bake them sweets that they love.

So attention deprived, none of the daughters.

And yet. The eldest daughter is very reserved, introverted, plus melancholic. It is clear that here, and nature is doing its job. So we are with her every week arrange gatherings together on neutral territory. It was there, alone, she began to open up, to talk about problems with friends, we together discuss the problem situation and try to find together a way out. See what these weekly forays very important to her, as still and jealousy is present to a younger sister. Junior 5.

Does your child know that you love him? do you tell about it?

always, at every opportunity. And she very often talks about his love for me.

You can Wake some fun background music that unconsciously made us happy..

thanks for the idea, will definitely try it!!

LanaF 16 May 2012

Tell me, how long has this been going on?

And that every time You ask her why she has such a mood?

I’m so tired of her bad mood, and not only in the morning . what my imagination has no limit)

Maybe she gets tired more, and from Your questions, about her mood.

Every week I tunable children “holidays”, and fully – themed party, with prizes. They love the holidays. This time I managed to Wake my daughter at least some motivation to learn. Now she does her homework without hysterics. Before each request to sit for lessons was accompanied by crocodile tears.

And yet – once a week, mainly in one weekend – I bake them sweets that they love.

So attention deprived, none of the daughters.

You, of course, well done, it’s all fine.

On the other hand – just not a mother, and a cheerleader. You’re not overdoing it?

I mean, everything should be in moderation.

Summary 17 May 2012

Tell me, how long has this been going on?

And that every time You ask her why she has such a mood?

I wrote, she melancholic, and in principle, inspired her condition is rare, it rarely shows positive emotions. Tears and resentment often in total.

And of course I already do not bother with asking for one. Just Wake her up every time with a smile and gentle words.

How long? Hard to say, honestly. Can approximately as long as a new sister, 5 years

On the other hand – just not a mother, and a cheerleader. You’re not overdoing it?

I mean, everything should be in moderation.

to tell you the truth, children adore. But here’s the cheerleader I need Seeing what effect has our time together – and agree to overdo it, if so. We and relationships have improved, and the climate in the family has changed, and children are less likely to quarrel among themselves.

let’s start with the fact that the mother has no time to be a magic wand I work for me until the evening not at home.

And then besides I have children and a husband, all due attention is required, and a favorite time I don’t deprive.

And maybe that is it already as a habit. ritual or something.

I know my eldest is also 8.5 years. not terribly fond of to get up for school in the morning. every morning I Wake with a kiss..and affectionate words,the son of one begins and the same ritual. whines and complains how he hates school..on the question why finds a lot of reasons..blames the teacher,classmates someone else … always finds a reason to complain. then eat Breakfast,quietly dressed and in a good mood going to school. I first thought to change schools,or class..but the relationship with classmates is good..and the school doesn’t want to change. said that is not enough to get up early. and once we slept I woke him up as usual and did not listen to whining and ran ran to cook Breakfast.