Hello! Our son is 1.7 months. He perfectly speaks, develops, pleased with himself and loves us. Hyperactive, sometimes trying to manipulate us with screaming and very persistent. He can agree, but if he’s not willing, it can be done only by force and through a tantrum. Of particular concern is the crying at bedtime. Before, he used to fall asleep with the breast, then in the stroller, in the car. After a year almost always with the chest, sometimes in the car. By the time the excommunication (1.6 months).the chest he got to sleep (day and night), and woke up 3-4 times at night. When milk was very little 5-6 times. I tried in the afternoon to put him in the stroller, rocking on his hands, just to sing and lie still on the bed. Nothing gave result as soon as he realized what was going to happen at once in the cry. Sometimes he was almost asleep, so he “pecks” nose and goes into a deep sleep and immediately shaken and requires the chest. In the end, it was decided to separate sharply and explain that Sesay was tired and no more milk. Offered water, milk, tried to rock, but he roared, kicking a couple of times and hit me. Three times I left my room for two minutes(this was a big mistake), when he returned, behaved calmly. In the afternoon and took a NAP, fell asleep late at night from Continue reading
The origins of violence
Aggression in Latin – attack. Causes of aggression in children can be very different from somatic diseases or diseases of the nervous system to the peculiarities of education in the family, in particular the nature of the punishments that are usually used by parents in response to the manifestation of anger in your child.
The root cause of aggression can be in the aggressive behavior of the parents.
One of the causes of childhood aggression can be a Lack of love and attention from her parents. If your child feels in the family abandoned and worthless, he begins to attract attention by any means. For the baby any important sign of attention, even negative. He will fight in kindergarten, throwing toys, throwing sand on the street.
It is vital for emotional contact with their parents hugs, kisses. It’s important for him daily to hear from them: “We love you. We are glad that you have there. I’m happy when you’re with me. I’m glad that you got a boy (or girl)”.
Another cause of childhood aggression. The absence of rules and arrangements in the family.
Maybe mom and dad can’t agree among themselves about what to demand from the child, and often Continue reading
“Your personality one weakness. You cannot distinguish a lie from truth. When one is young, and lie your – children is a lie, no matter how bizarre it was. But soon you’ll be a grown man. And life punishes liars without love and mercy.
What to do if a child is lying?
Children lie for the unnatural phenomenon, it would seem. Kids like cute little angels, by default, can’t lie, we think. The more we are shocked when we realize, “my baby is lying”.
However, let’s think about why unnatural and why children lie is surprising. Actually a lie accompanies us everywhere. What happens if you disappear a lie? For anybody not a secret that for peaceful coexistence in society and the family to be sincere with everyone and is always dangerous for health, if not life.
The simplest proof – try one day to tell everyone the truth: the chief methods of its management, to a spouse of the household or the football/beer/friends; neighbors about their protracted parties; friend – her next boyfriend. Much You will achieve true?
Most interesting is that art is essentially built on lies, and in medicine and in politics lie is also often occurs. Here and how the child should Continue reading