Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way.
This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.
Itself to cry, do not be ashamed and not harmful. Good to cry from joy, to cry at the funeral, where appropriate and customary. But in other situations where children and women can cry, men do not. Men don’t cry, because for them it is usually pointless, and to be boys, we have a strong and reasonable people.
This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.
Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they cause him protest Continue reading
The origins of violence
Aggression in Latin – attack. Causes of aggression in children can be very different from somatic diseases or diseases of the nervous system to the peculiarities of education in the family, in particular the nature of the punishments that are usually used by parents in response to the manifestation of anger in your child.
The root cause of aggression can be in the aggressive behavior of the parents.
One of the causes of childhood aggression can be a Lack of love and attention from her parents. If your child feels in the family abandoned and worthless, he begins to attract attention by any means. For the baby any important sign of attention, even negative. He will fight in kindergarten, throwing toys, throwing sand on the street.
It is vital for emotional contact with their parents hugs, kisses. It’s important for him daily to hear from them: “We love you. We are glad that you have there. I’m happy when you’re with me. I’m glad that you got a boy (or girl)”.
Another cause of childhood aggression. The absence of rules and arrangements in the family.
Maybe mom and dad can’t agree among themselves about what to demand from the child, and often Continue reading
“Your personality one weakness. You cannot distinguish a lie from truth. When one is young, and lie your – children is a lie, no matter how bizarre it was. But soon you’ll be a grown man. And life punishes liars without love and mercy.
What to do if a child is lying?
Children lie for the unnatural phenomenon, it would seem. Kids like cute little angels, by default, can’t lie, we think. The more we are shocked when we realize, “my baby is lying”.
However, let’s think about why unnatural and why children lie is surprising. Actually a lie accompanies us everywhere. What happens if you disappear a lie? For anybody not a secret that for peaceful coexistence in society and the family to be sincere with everyone and is always dangerous for health, if not life.
The simplest proof – try one day to tell everyone the truth: the chief methods of its management, to a spouse of the household or the football/beer/friends; neighbors about their protracted parties; friend – her next boyfriend. Much You will achieve true?
Most interesting is that art is essentially built on lies, and in medicine and in politics lie is also often occurs. Here and how the child should Continue reading