Hello! Our son is 1.7 months. He perfectly speaks, develops, pleased with himself and loves us. Hyperactive, sometimes trying to manipulate us with screaming and very persistent. He can agree, but if he’s not willing, it can be done only by force and through a tantrum. Of particular concern is the crying at bedtime. Before, he used to fall asleep with the breast, then in the stroller, in the car. After a year almost always with the chest, sometimes in the car. By the time the excommunication (1.6 months).the chest he got to sleep (day and night), and woke up 3-4 times at night. When milk was very little 5-6 times. I tried in the afternoon to put him in the stroller, rocking on his hands, just to sing and lie still on the bed. Nothing gave result as soon as he realized what was going to happen at once in the cry. Sometimes he was almost asleep, so he “pecks” nose and goes into a deep sleep and immediately shaken and requires the chest. In the end, it was decided to separate sharply and explain that Sesay was tired and no more milk. Offered water, milk, tried to rock, but he roared, kicking a couple of times and hit me. Three times I left my room for two minutes(this was a big mistake), when he returned, behaved calmly. In the afternoon and took a NAP, fell asleep late at night from Continue reading
Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way.
This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.
Itself to cry, do not be ashamed and not harmful. Good to cry from joy, to cry at the funeral, where appropriate and customary. But in other situations where children and women can cry, men do not. Men don’t cry, because for them it is usually pointless, and to be boys, we have a strong and reasonable people.
This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.
Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they cause him protest Continue reading
The origins of violence
Aggression in Latin – attack. Causes of aggression in children can be very different from somatic diseases or diseases of the nervous system to the peculiarities of education in the family, in particular the nature of the punishments that are usually used by parents in response to the manifestation of anger in your child.
The root cause of aggression can be in the aggressive behavior of the parents.
One of the causes of childhood aggression can be a Lack of love and attention from her parents. If your child feels in the family abandoned and worthless, he begins to attract attention by any means. For the baby any important sign of attention, even negative. He will fight in kindergarten, throwing toys, throwing sand on the street.
It is vital for emotional contact with their parents hugs, kisses. It’s important for him daily to hear from them: “We love you. We are glad that you have there. I’m happy when you’re with me. I’m glad that you got a boy (or girl)”.
Another cause of childhood aggression. The absence of rules and arrangements in the family.
Maybe mom and dad can’t agree among themselves about what to demand from the child, and often Continue reading