The origins of violence
Aggression in Latin – attack. Causes of aggression in children can be very different from somatic diseases or diseases of the nervous system to the peculiarities of education in the family, in particular the nature of the punishments that are usually used by parents in response to the manifestation of anger in your child.
The root cause of aggression can be in the aggressive behavior of the parents.
One of the causes of childhood aggression can be a Lack of love and attention from her parents. If your child feels in the family abandoned and worthless, he begins to attract attention by any means. For the baby any important sign of attention, even negative. He will fight in kindergarten, throwing toys, throwing sand on the street.
It is vital for emotional contact with their parents hugs, kisses. It’s important for him daily to hear from them: “We love you. We are glad that you have there. I’m happy when you’re with me. I’m glad that you got a boy (or girl)”.
Another cause of childhood aggression. The absence of rules and arrangements in the family.
Maybe mom and dad can’t agree among themselves about what to demand from the child, and often Continue reading
“Your personality one weakness. You cannot distinguish a lie from truth. When one is young, and lie your – children is a lie, no matter how bizarre it was. But soon you’ll be a grown man. And life punishes liars without love and mercy.
What to do if a child is lying?
Children lie for the unnatural phenomenon, it would seem. Kids like cute little angels, by default, can’t lie, we think. The more we are shocked when we realize, “my baby is lying”.
However, let’s think about why unnatural and why children lie is surprising. Actually a lie accompanies us everywhere. What happens if you disappear a lie? For anybody not a secret that for peaceful coexistence in society and the family to be sincere with everyone and is always dangerous for health, if not life.
The simplest proof – try one day to tell everyone the truth: the chief methods of its management, to a spouse of the household or the football/beer/friends; neighbors about their protracted parties; friend – her next boyfriend. Much You will achieve true?
Most interesting is that art is essentially built on lies, and in medicine and in politics lie is also often occurs. Here and how the child should Continue reading
My eldest daughter is 8.5. What worries me is that it always! wakes up in a bad mood. This is a very bad effect on the overall climate in the family. Moreover, is not dependent – it’s a weekend or school, in the morning she always gets up acidly. Talked to her, asked what was bothering her. In response – I tired it last night. By withdrawing asleep for a long time, especially not to Wake me, letting her sleep .. Tried to explain that getting up in the morning in a bad mood and it programs on the same day that you need much energy. Once even jokingly brought her back to bed and told him to stand with his right foot, novelty and gag did its job – the whole morning laughing.
Daughter goes to a publish school, comes home to 6. Loves classmates, the school itself and the education – doesn’t like Can be the reason?
Fantomas 16 May 2012
Shurochka 16 May 2012
Though I am not a little girl, but I’ve noticed that often depends on the mood of the dream.
Sometimes I Wake up Sunny, dakatia reality.
Sometimes you will dream of something vague, but something unpleasant and get in the same mood.
You didn’t ask, her dreams? What??
Then you can PM to warn her that in the morning Continue reading