To help children to learn is to exercise day-to-day care of school Affairs: first to the house how the guys cope with the tasks, which are experiencing difficulties, which make mistakes, etc.
Many students with homework willingly make those lessons that are given to them easily, without much effort of thought. If such students do not have solved the problem with the move, they leave it and more to the task will not be returned. Why is it so? Here we need to specify not a very significant mistake that many parents in the upbringing of children: not instill in them such a valuable moral qualities as diligence. If the child is not accustomed to labor, the first failure in academic work cause unpleasant experiences, which are then transferred to the unwillingness to learn. The latter leads to failure and underachieving children for a long time lose interest in learning, to the acquisition of knowledge. So the first day of study it is necessary to accustom the child to intellectual work, to monitor the fulfilment of homework, to help overcome the difficulties.
The speech of parents in the family serves as a model for children not only in the preschool period, but in high school. Guys listen Continue reading
Not a simple question. Even adults sometimes don’t hear the first time. After all, about men, and about the staff often hear such complaints: “I say, I say, and as the wall peas. Here’s how another man to say?” But maybe these adults have grown from children who have not learned to hear the first time? Try to teach this child still stands.
The algorithm is as follows:
1. First of all, make sure you listen carefully.
It happens that the child is absorbed in play or work and really can’t hear. By the way, I when writing a text or develop a training program that is so focused on process that is totally off from reality. So I at this point have heard, you either have very very loudly to call, or to touch. The second option is nicer. Don’t like loud noises. Therefore itself in a similar situation too, I put my hand on his shoulder, drawing attention to yourself, even a little to himself to deploy. And just making sure that I managed to be in the spotlight, beginning to speak.
Have you ever talked with a young child who really wants to tell you something important? Which Continue reading
Summer is the best time to conduct as much time as possible outside, especially for children – in fact, a growing body of air. However, not only this issue is of concern to many parents, but also the question of what to do with the child in the summer, so it was not boring, useful and entertaining!
5. benefit in the summer, even out of your daily nature walks. Prepare a story about some natural phenomena, or interesting facts about nature – summer when everything is blooming and evolving, it is easier to show by example of interesting plants and insects.
6. if your child loves to write essays, poems or just loves literature – offer him an unusual occupation for the summer: every day in a small diary to describe the most interesting moments that have happened over the past day, and in late summer to help him make his small book of short stories about summer.
7. this is the same method we applied to the photo – now the child from primary school has mobile, a camera, or just buy him an inexpensive camera. Let your child pictures of interesting cases and writes to them a little explanation – notes. And in late summer create together a collage that you can hang in the room the child to have it all fall, Continue reading
For the elaboration of the child’s self many teachers recommend the use of special instructions for performing various tasks that teach your baby to form a certain algorithm in various situations (e.g., how to learn a new rule, how to solve a complex problem, how to do the work on the bugs, etc.). Such reminders can be made with the child in the form of diagrams or drawings, or a numbered sequence, and hang over his Desk, the child with them were compared.
It is known that a large number of errors children make due to carelessness, it is therefore very important skill in learning activity is self-control. The child should be able to learn, remember if the content of the paragraph, find the spelling of words in the dictionary to check the accuracy of mathematical calculations, etc., and in the classroom, and at home should always be the scheme of self-examination. After all, when the child learns to check after any type of activity, number of errors he has dramatically reduced.
If the child is when the job shows any initiative, for example, decides an additional job, or finds during preparation of additional material, be sure to praise him.
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Nothing affects children, as education in the family. It just so happened that each family has its own system of education that is shaped by family traditions, characters of parents and children, the goals and methods of education, and life circumstances of all family members. Psychologists have identified four parenting style, and each of them has a different effect on children.
Dictatorship (authoritarian style).
Authoritarian parenting style is the constant suppression of older initiatives and self-esteem of others, especially children. No, of course, parents should make demands on children, but still, this does not mean that in raising children are the only methods should be violence and orders. The child certainly one answer authoritarian parents hypocrisy, false, or open hatred. What is the impact on children has authoritarianism? First, they do not know how to decide and it’s scary. Dictatorship prevents developing child, prevents the formation of such qualities as independence, self-esteem, initiative, belief in yourself and your strength. In the end, the identity of the child is formed with large defects.
The author of the famous mom, who tied the washed raspberries to the bushes: the child didn’t eat it otherwise, but as with Continue reading