Sooner or later your grown up child decides they want to earn their pocket money, and this summer has a very. How to react to this?

From the beginning, you should understand why the teenager decided to become employed. If he hears day after day from their parents phrases like: “You live with us, follow our rules”, “what for you to respect? You sense no one!” or worse: “That will earn will be entitled to their own opinion!” — he can form the maniacal attitude to work, which would not release it even in adulthood. This teenager would take the money the only thing that helps to earn the respect will grow unhealthy ambitions, problems with self-esteem.

Another thing is healthy for a teenager to manage their own money, learn to earn. Many Teens are going to work to support the parents when the family’s financial difficulties arise.

Finally, most teenagers want to be as adults, to feel serious and responsible. This desire is commendable, it shows the psychological maturation of the child. Continue reading

Parenting without punishment

In the family has the baby. Parents are happy and looking forward to each new day, enjoy each new skill a child. But there comes a time when the grown child begins to achieve something and not behave in the best way. Tantrums in the store with the requirement to buy a toy. Mischief at home and away. Ignoring the parent words. On — more: the first deceptions and teenage confusion. How to cope with all this? How to raise children? To punish, scold, beat, ignore? To answer this question it is necessary to clarify in General the situation with penalties: what they are, the situations in which their parents used, and whether it is possible not to punish children.

Punishment — this is only one of the forms of child training skills, not mandatory.

Penalties come in many forms: verbal, physical, punishment labour, deprivation of attention and love, deprivation of certain goods.

Verbal — are often a protective reaction of the parent act on the child. Insults and threats just voiced their resentment deceived parental expectations. What parent gets in the end? The child is angry, or closed, not sure of himself, there is no mutual understanding Continue reading

Sexual education of children and adolescents

Sex education of the younger generation — a matter of great public importance. The growth of scientific, economic and cultural achievements in the country and enriched the spiritual world of our youth.

It is believed that if the child learns and behaves approximately, sexual development he proceeds normally. This is a fallacy. Even with the excessive sexual excitability or incorrect formation of sexual orientation of such a child are little or no different from the healthy. Sexual deviation from the norm in excitable child may be masked, for their detection requires careful supervision of their parents.

Erotic sensations may occur at a very early age, as puberty their intensity is increasing, and the forms of manifestation are becoming more diverse. That is why the issue of sex education is one of the most difficult pedagogical problems, especially when an isolated consideration of its issues, to Educate people of the future, multi-faceted thinking, deeply feeling the underlying sex education.

A number of complex and controversial life issues occur daily in the family and school, but no study guide, no book can give ready-made solutions for each of them. Continue reading

Bad habits kids

The kid gains experience, and with it, as strange as it sounds,

some bad habits. Through this, almost all children, and in this

there is nothing wrong, if it is correct to treat this. Therefore, the effectiveness of

struggle with bad habits of children is largely dependent on competent behavior


So, each age group has their bad habits. We will look at the most common ones.

“Dirty” occupations.

Many, especially young mothers are able to shock “picturesque”

picture, when a kid pulls off her dirty diaper and begins happily

to play with the contents. The first thing that terrified parents will think: “What a mess!

The kid himself doesn’t know what does!”. The assumption is not true: the kid knows that

does he explores! Child acts according to the principle: everything that crumple – need

to crush, all that smudge – smudge, because otherwise how will you know that it wrinkled and

smeared. Tiny gets the idea about the environment, properties

items and does not hesitate to do any “materials”. Such “games” can

to last from several days to several months, until the baby will not lose

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What can the child?

turns babbling sound of the Serenade;

shows the nose, mouth and other body parts mom, doll, herself in the mirror, sometimes correctly “getting” the finger in the right place;

puts fingers in all the holes;

knows how to tear and crumple the paper crumples in the palm clay;

can flipping thick pages of a cardboard book;

alone sits, sits, walks at the support, creeps;

stands up without support;

rhythmically jumps and crouches at the support or holding mom’s hand.

A child in 9 months all the time repeats syllables, counting vowels and consonants, aucet, cries, sometimes laughs. And in his own language, comments on what is happening around. Some babies are “tied” syllables to mom and dad ( mA-mA-mA-am ) and his favorite toys ( Gia-Gia-Gia – Bunny, etc.).

The child’s emotions every day richer. Most often a little surprised or happy, somewhat interested, but sometimes does not hide the anger, disgust, sadness, fear. He can be whiny, resentful, fearful, especially if mom is constantly on edge, and, in General, balanced, calm and delivers a minimum of hassle.

The kid has clearly manifested discontent, aimed at specific Continue reading

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